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: środa, 11 lutego 2015, 12:58
Źródło. :3How Does Each Personality Type Ask “Do You Love Me?”
▶ Harmony Types: ENFJ, INFJ, ESFJ, ISFJ
“Do you love me?”“Yes! I love you!”
- Do you feel connected to me?
- Will you check in and make sure I’m okay?
- Will you acknowledge and take care of my needs?
- Am I safe with you?
- Do you accept and approve of me?
How it can be misinterpreted by other types: Smothering, intrusive.
- I will meet your needs before I meet my own.
- I will check in regularly and make sure you’re okay.
- I will do my best to keep morale up.
- I will show you appreciation in whatever way I’d like to be shown appreciation.
▶ Authenticity Types: ENFP, INFP, ESFP, ISFP
“Do you Love Me?”“Yes! I love you!”
- Do you think I’m being real with you?
- Do you trust my motives and my intent?
- Will you support me no matter what – do you have my back?
- Will you give me space to be “me?”
How it can be misinterpreted by other types: Passive, self-absorbed
- I will be patient with your honest expressions.
- I will honor your feelings and identity, even if it’s a struggle for both of us.
- I will hold space for you, and give you alone time when you need it.
- I will have your back no matter what the fight is.
- I will trust you have my best interests at heart.
▶ Effectiveness Types: ENTJ, INTJ, ESTJ, ISTJ
“Do you Love Me?”“Yes! I love you!”
- Will you handle things – can I rely on you?
- Will you make my life easier, can I relax knowing you’re “on it?”
- Will you support my career and/or goals and be self-sufficient?
- Are you loyal?
How it can be misinterpreted by other types: Controlling, distant, “unromantic”
- I will be endlessly loyal on principle.
- I will educate myself on you and learn how you operate.
- I will take pride in you, boasting about your accomplishments even before my own.
- I will protect you.
- I chose you. I continue to choose you. Case closed.
▶ Accuracy Types: ENTP, INTP, ESTP, ISTP
“Do you Love Me?”“Yes! I love you!”
- Do you think I’m totally competent?
- Are you impressed with my performance?
- Do you trust that I’m not lying to you or B.S.’ing you in any way?
- Does it make sense that you love me? That you stay with me?
How it can be misinterpreted by other types: Harsh, insensitive, cold
- I will be rigorously honest with you. If I have a ‘wandering eye’ I will tell you, and provide a solution.
- I will gift you with my precision. I will learn you and give high performance at all levels.
- I will protect you from others, but not from yourself.
- I will never judge you. Instead, I will be there for you when things go bad, no matter why they went bad.
